I attended a very popular wedding industry event this week. A lot of us are in the same boat: attending these events to be seen, connecting with vendors in the hopes of building a relationship, showing our “status” in the industry with our outfits, yet none of us are booking weddings. Are these events worth it? Why are we all attending, wearing the best of the best to prove we are luxury, yet only having three events on the calendar? It’s exhausting putting on a show to prove you’re successful.