Please print out your couples family shot list. As a photographer I request that a family member or wedding party member read off the list, if the planner won’t be involved, and that the person has that list ready to go. Majority of the time, this list is not sent to them… I hate when my phone is being passed around during family photos!! It’s not my responsibility. Respectfully, I believe it’s yours…to at least print out the family shot list for your couple and their point person.